Tuesday 14 October 2008

Wedded Bliss!


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What a wonderful weekend my family and I have just had.Together again for the first time in nine months, we gathered to witness my son's marriage to his beautiful wife.

It was a glorious day full of fun, laughter, solemnity and sincerity. How proud was I of my fantastic offspring! Three handsome sons and a beautiful daughter now joined by the most amazing daughter-in-laws that any family could wish for.

The whole day was so delightful. From the outstanding October sunshine to the picturesque setting of the reception hall. From the historic and beautiful church to the togetherness of all who gathered to witness this amazing event.

The organisation hasn't been without it's ups and downs, or stresses and strains but they have only served to strengthen the resolve of the couple committing their lives to one another.

Here's to a long, happy, fulfilling marriage that will bring hope and joy to all those who have the privilege to share their lives with Phil and Lizzie!

Monday 6 October 2008

"Be careful what you wish for..."

At the end of this week we shall have a new addition to our family. No I am not about to produce a tiny bundle of joy to keep me busy in my old age! Rather than go to all that trouble I have managed to get myself another daughter in law! I can't express how excited I am at the impending nuptials and at welcoming another beautiful woman into the family.

As I was contemplating the changing family dynamics yesterday and chatting about it to a friend of mine I was reminded about the days when my life was full of babies, toddlers, dirty nappies and sleepless nights. Being a mother to three boisterous, but incredibly gorgeous young boys and a beautiful daughter with special needs, I was always very busy and often exhausted but I always made sure that I spent time praying for them and their futures.You see it was always very clear to me that these children were not mine to keep! They had been given to me for a time and one day they would have lives of their own to live. My role was to prepare them for that day.

One of the things that I often prayed for was their future wives. I have enjoyed a fantastic, loving marriage that has brought me more joy than I could possibly have dreamt of. I have always wanted the same for my children.

Whilst they were growing up, so were the girls that would one day be my daughters in law. So I prayed for them. That they would have good relationships with their parents, that they would come to know Jesus as their Saviour, that they would be filled with fun and laughter, that they would be everything that my boys would need in the future. At the same time I prayed that my sons would be great husbands and together their Dad and I sought to teach them Godly ways of conducting their lives and treating other people.

So next Saturday my second son will promise to love and cherish his new wife- "for richer or poorer, for better or worse, in sickness and health, till death do they part" and I know that he will mean every word of it. And we will welcome Lizzie into our family with open arms knowing that she is the one we have been praying for since Phil was tiny.